Moving On...

Another one of those unfinished posts!


So I call this post moving on, well actually that it is what it is all about.... moving on.  It seems to have been sometime since I last blogged, over six months to be precise.  I cant really remember what I last wrote about, i suppose because it has been rather an eventful year to 2010 or at least the latter part of 2010.  The beginning of 2011 was somewhat a fresh beginning.

The most eventful and rewarding moments came at my engagement and nuptials.  This truly marked the end of one long chapter in my life and the beginning of another.  To be honest with you, when you get to my age as I did to the not so tender age of 31, one almost loses hope and anticipation of a forthcoming marital partnership. To the point where any talk based on marriage by the elders is seemingly not entertained, I mean after all if you get to 30 plus and still no sign of the 'right' guy then whats the point.  The 'right' guy? what and who makes it as the 'right' guy you may ask, well each will have their on ideology and opinions on that subject.  Mine wasn't based around money, profession, looks (yes looks do matter, don't get me wrong) but it would be a person who would encourage and flourish the good in me and help heal the pain in me and vice versa, that is a lot to ask for since such things do not seemingly appear immediately in any given person.

I found what I was looking for or at least I thought what i was looking for.  To be honest with you when you meet the right guy it kind of just clicks there is no rhyme or rhythm to it, it just happens and it feels right. Believe me it does!

In the space of one year I got married and gave birth to a beautiful girl.  There was a time I often wondered if my life would actually move forward or was I going to be stuck in the same place forever and whilst many also lost hope for my promising future it was nice that I could prove all wrong.

Life has moved on considerably and many chapters have been turned, a lot learnt, a lot to still learn and life is truly amazing!

Keep smiling -:)